heard something... really... out of this world.. during lecture today. my lecturer never fails to have... interesting... stories to tell us. but i am so glad i did not get to blog about this immediately after i heard it, or i would have exploded and ranted online.

"oh hi! long time no see! so how've you been? you were engaged during your school days to this girl right? are you guys married now?"
"oh we broke up..."
-pause-
"so.. what happened?"
"we had sex before marriage. she is not a virgin anymore. so i cant marry her"
-shock-
"but... she had sex with you!!!!!"
-pause- "but the point is that she is NOT a virgin anymore!"

if you are at this sentence already, i hope you are in as much shock as i am. there is nothing much i can say anymore. he deserves to go to hell. but then again, i am not God. darn. she is just totally dumb. really really really dumb.

if virginity is so important to you, then why did you take it away from her!!! and why did you not give her your own virginity?!?!?!?! is virginity a commodity now? something we use to exchange for marriage??

girls out there.. DO NOT be fooled. have sex with him and (1) he dumps you and no one else will want you (perhaps only as a lover but not as a wife. (2) he marries you and you regret for life.